7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on Migrants, lawyers, smuggling gangs and the French cash in – while Brits are left to foot the bill
PABest A group of people thought to be migrants onboard a small boat leaving the beach at Gravelines, France, attempting to reach the UK by crossing the English Channel. More than 1,100 migrants arrived in the UK after crossing the English Channel on Saturday, the highest number recorded on a single day so far this […]PA
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THE Left has preached for years about how mass migration benefits the cultural and economic vitality of our nation.
But it seems the main people it enriches are human rights lawyers, hotel owners, criminal gangs and the French authorities.
The Left has hailed the benefits of mass migration for years — but it’s migrants, lawyers, gangs and the French cashing inPA
They can start in schools by giving teachers clear guidance — and power — to ban phones in classrooms.
And they can send a clear message to tech giants that if they fail to bring in safeguards soon, tough legal restrictions will be imposed on them.
Not much cop
POLICE appear to have won their battle against the Chancellor’s plans to squeeze their funding in this week’s spending review — but they were warned yesterday they must “do their bit” to cut waste.
They could save millions if they stopped sending officers to arrest law-abiding citizens who post “hurty” comments on social media.
It might even provide extra cash to tackle proper crimes like burglary, shop theft and street violence.
DEIDRE SAYS: This relationship won’t ever work. She’s running a home with no partner to give her support, but she should know better than to seduce her son’s friend.
Your mate would be devastated if he knew what his mother is doing, and you stand to lose his friendship if he ever finds out.
You don’t have to give in to temptation. Don’t go round to her house again.
Get out with friends your own age and give yourself the chance of a more equal relationship.
You’ve had a lucky escape and got away with it.
Put it down to experience and get on with enjoying your life.
Get in touch with Deidre
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
I STILL FEEL ANGER OVER CHEATING EX
DEAR DEIDRE: I CANNOT stop feeling angry with my ex-wife – who I broke up with after coming home early one day and seeing her in bed with another guy.
I am 36. I thought we had a great relationship, but clearly I was wrong.
We had been married for five years and were talking about starting a family.
But she began going out regularly, getting drunk and not coming home until the early hours.
After I caught her cheating, we divorced. She has remarried and has a baby. I have moved on, too, and am now with a wonderful woman.
Our mutual friends have accepted my ex’s new husband, yet they don’t seem to want to know my partner, who has done nothing wrong. It feels like I am being punished for her affair when I am completely innocent.
My ex’s life seems to be going so smoothly. She hasn’t suffered in the way I did and I sometimes wish she had. Why can’t I just move on?
DEIDRE SAYS: The fact you are still hurt and angry over the loss of your marriage is understandable. You were betrayed in the worst way possible.
Counselling could help you to find peace and contentment with your new partner and leave the past behind. My support pack, How Counselling Helps, explains more.
Unfortunately, many people feel pressured to choose sides when a couple divorce.
Building up new friendships will help shift your focus from this pain.
WORRIED TO DATE WITH STD
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER my ex gave me genital herpes, I worry my chances of dating someone new are ruined. I am devastated.
I am a 24-year-old single woman. I was with my boyfriend for two years, but I discovered through a mutual friend that he had been cheating on me all the time we were together.
And he gave me herpes. I am so ashamed because I know the stigma around this condition. The thought of telling someone new is so daunting, but saying nothing is putting them at risk of going through the same nightmare.
It is all I think about from the minute I wake up until I go to sleep at night.
It is really knocking my confidence as I’m scared about what any guy’s reaction will be. I think they are likely to run a mile.
I feel very alone and it’s never off my mind. My mum keeps telling me not to worry about it as it’s very common.
It is stopping me from even attempting to date and getting close to someone.
DEIDRE SAYS: There is no reason to avoid meeting new partners. You can have a safe sex life without passing on the virus.
Don’t feel ashamed about what has happened, herpes is a common virus.
You can get detailed advice from the Herpes Viruses Association (herpes.org.uk, 0845 123 2305), who can help you get on with your life.
My support pack, Raising Self-Esteem, will give you a confidence boost.
SILLY GAME HAS RUINED SEX LIFE
DEAR DEIDRE: A DRUNKEN game of truth or dare went disastrously wrong when I admitted to my husband that my ex had a bigger penis than him.
I bitterly regret blurting this out and, since then, our once regular, amazing sex life has virtually died out completely.
I am 33 and my husband is 35. We have been married for eight years.
He was so hurt and admitted that something inside him just switched off and destroyed his sex drive.
Apart from the lack of sex, we have a wonderful relationship.
We are very tactile and always have lots of kisses and cuddles.
He is my best friend and always calls me every day when he is at work to say that he loves me. I know that I have let him down terribly.
Since that night, sex has dwindled to a couple of times a year at best.
And it’s always me who initiates it when my husband has had a few drinks. He admits he probably needs help, but he never does anything about it.
It is so frustrating. I feel like I am being punished even though I have apologised for my mistake many times.
I am missing the sensual closeness and intimacy of sex. My friends all say we are lucky to be so in love and happy. If they knew the truth, they would be shocked.
DEIDRE SAYS: If your husband already had insecure feelings about his size, then your confession would intensify that.
You have apologised and I assume that you have never complained about your sex life before this.
Reassure your husband that being a great lover is about skill, not penis size, and you are more than happy.
Tell him how much you miss being intimate and want to get your sex life back to normal. My support pack on Penis Size will reassure him.
Watch what you drink in future, to avoid being insensitive.
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on PORTUGAL 2 SPAIN 2: (5-3 on pens) LIVE RESULT: Ronaldo and Co secure Nations League title after epic win on penalties
CRISTIANO RONALDO has added yet another trophy to his ever-bulging cabinet as Portugal beat Spain in an epic Nations League final via penalties.
Arsenal target Zubimendi broke the deadlock after a defensive mix-up, before Nuno Mendes levelled the scoring.
Mikel Oyarzabal then put La Roja back ahead with a sensational finish just before the break.
However, Cristiano Ronaldo popped up with a superb volley, which sent the game to penalties.
And after Diogo Costa saved Alvaro Morata‘s penalty, Ruben Neves stepped up to secure Portugal’s second Nations League triumph.
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on Portugal 2 Spain 2 (5-3 pens): Tearful Cristiano Ronaldo, 40, wins third international trophy as Morata misses penalty
PORTUGAL tasted Nations League glory for a second time with Cristiano Ronaldo playing a starring role – and Chelsea flop Alvaro Morata the villain.
After winning the inaugural 2019 edition, Roberto Martinez’s men are champions once more in a thrilling finale in Munich, fighting back twice to draw level against reigning European champions Spain.
Portugal beat Spain 5-3 on penalties in the Nations League finalCristiano Ronaldo broke down in tears after Ruben Neves scored the last spot-kickDiogo Costa saved Alvaro Morata’s penalty
Alvaro Morata misses from the spot Ruben Neves scores from the spot Portugal are Uefa Nations League winners! pic.twitter.com/2WqXRg1DQv
Ronaldo netted an ingenious equalising 61st minute volley to make it 2-2 for his 938th career goal and 138th for his country – but the 40-year-old watched the penalties from the bench, along with 17-year-old teenage superstar Lamine Yamal.
And Spain’s Morata missed his spot-kick for Ruben Neves to slot home the winner.
Both nations were vying to become the first to lift the Nations League twice.
A slow start was thrust into life by a Nico Williams whipped curler that just cleared the bar after 17 minutes – and four minutes later the Spaniards were ahead.
Yamal at the heart of it, his delicious cross was made a mess of by a scrambling Portugal defence, allowing soon-to-be Arsenal midfielder Martin Zubimendi to score just his second international goal.
Spain were 4-0 up after 55 minutes in their 5-4 semi thriller against France last week, but Ronaldo was not about to let that happen again as he burst in behind to spark an attack.
It ended with Mendes firing low into the bottom corner in the 26th minute, but not before a VAR check that judged Ronaldo to have timed his run to perfection.
The final say of the first half was Spain’s.
Arsenal target Martin Zubimendi opened the scoring in the 21st minuteNuno Mendes levelled the scores within five minutesMikel Oyarzabal made it 2-1 on the stroke of half-time
Pedri with a superb reverse pass to tee up Mikel Oyarzabal in injury time – the man who broke English hearts in the Euros final in Berlin last summer producing another big goal in Munich.
Martinez responded by bringing on Neves and Nelson Semedo at the break, and it almost had an instant impact as Bruno Fernandes had a 49th minute strike ruled out for offside.
An equaliser was coming and Ronaldo reacted first to a deflected looped cross that bamboozled Marc Cucurella for his eighth Nations League of the campaign.
He hobbled off with a muscular injury in the 88th minute, while Yamal was subbed in the 106th minute, as the game became niggly with a VAR red-check following a mass melee.
Goncalo Ramos, Vitinha, Bruno Fernandes and Nuno Mendes all slotted home their penalties before Neves became the hero.
Ronaldo equalised in the 61st minute – his 138rd international goalRonaldo limped off injured in the the 87th minute
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on Labour can’t preach about hard choices while spending billions on migrant hotels… tax hikes will see Reform surge higher
EVERY single day, every single penny paid in tax by enough workers to fill a city the size of Manchester goes toward just one thing.
Some 582,000 folk, including nurses, teachers, builders, drivers and shop workers, all striving and contributing their fair share for one goal . . .
Labour can’t preach about hard choices while spending billions on migrant hotels… tax hikes will see Reform surge higherAFPHow can Rachel Reeves preach fiscal responsibility while chucking such vast amounts of cash out the door?[/caption]
They are paying to keep migrants in hotels, often rather nice ones.
The National Audit Office puts the bill for asylum accommodation and support last year at an eye-watering £4.7billion.
And that’s before healthcare costs and the price of the thousands of officials processing claims are factored in.
Now, new analysis by former Office for National Statistics numbers man Jamie Jenkins reveals who is picking up the tab.
‘Deeply concerned’
The mean average salary across all UK workers was £38,224 last year, generating an estimated £8,081 in tax per head.
Divide the hotel and support bill by that and you get 582,000 workers — almost exactly the population of the City of Manchester.
Or just over the size of Liverpool. Or bigger than Leicester or Leeds.
Last Tuesday, Home Secretary Yvette Cooper told MPs she was “deeply concerned about the level of money” being spent on hotels, adding: “We need to end asylum hotels altogether.”
But by the end of the week, her own department quietly admitted they are diverting another £2.2billion of money earmarked for overseas development assistance cash for hotels this year.
That’s basically the same amount as last year, despite shameless ministers sent out to insist on the airwaves that hotel use is falling and this Government has got a grip.
And the numbers blow away claims from politicians of all hues that we need a period of belt-tightening, with hard choices to be made.
Fair-minded voters — who believe in so-called sound money, restraint, spending within our means or whatever you want to call it — have every right to look upon this aghast.
And where the public might have had some sympathy over tough choices needing to be addressed, that argument is holed below the waterline by the seemingly endless magic money tree available for new arrivals to be housed while our veterans sleep on the streets.
Why can’t we spend more on our defence sooner rather than later, when we clearly have billions to spend on this?
Harry
The screeching U-turn on slashing Winter Fuel Payments is a case in point, after Labour MPs were hammered on the doorstep while campaigning in last month’s local elections.
Voters who were sympathetic towards the two-child benefit cap a few years ago are now looking — through the prism of asylum hotels — at a state that is willing to pay such sums towards foreign arrivals, rather than on hungry British kids.
Billions to spend
And why can’t we spend more on our defence sooner rather than later, when we clearly have billions to spend on this?
Which puts a deeply unpopular and struggling Government in something of a bind.
How can Rachel Reeves preach fiscal responsibility while chucking such vast amounts of cash out the door?
As the Chancellor’s negotiations with Cabinet ministers ahead of Wednesday’s Spending Review go to the wire, it’s going to be a very hard sell that police and crime budgets need to be cut in the same department that is bleeding out cash on migrant hotels.
But the Home Office will see a reduction in their share of the pie, with Reeves playing hardball.
And while she will heavily play up this week that there will be no return to “austerity”, with some eye-catching investment announcements across the country in a bid to buy off angry voters eyeing up Reform, her fundamental problems have not changed.
Reeves’ attempts to cut the benefits bill are being met with fierce opposition from Labour MPs
Harry
The Chancellor has Labour MPs on one side demanding more cash in their areas, alongside furious Cabinet colleagues fighting cuts to their departments, while on the other side, the international bond markets, which keep the spending merry-go-around going, are looking at the numbers with deep suspicion.
Looking wobbly
Reeves’ attempts to cut the benefits bill are being met with fierce opposition from Labour MPs, armed with this very argument: Why should disabled constituents see their support cut while billions are handed to young men who have come here after passing through numerous safe countries?
The self-proclaimed Iron Chancellor was looking wobbly already after a series of U-turns, but if she is agreeing to billions more for the NHS and our Armed Forces, cuts are going to have to come from somewhere . . . and soon.
Her allies insist there will be some iron on Wednesday, yet until the Government fixes the hotels mess, I’m not sure they will receive much sympathy or praise from a furious public that sees the current priorities as completely bonkers.
And heaven knows how high Reform’s polling lead will be if the Chancellor decides tax hikes in the autumn to pay for this crazy spending are the right way forward.
THE row over trans people using women’s loos rumbles on after the Supreme Court ruling of the bleedin’ obvious: that there are only two sexes and women’s spaces need protecting.
That argument can be found in depth elsewhere, but more and more public places are making all their toilets gender-neutral.
Without going full Alan Partridge, that is having a major side-effect . . . queues.
Unlike the ladies, I can’t remember having to queue for the gents in a cafe, bar, club or theatre ever. Now it’s endless.
WE have all sent an angry message then regretted it the next morning – well, I certainly have.
He’s now back in a different role, having made up his differences behind the scenes.
Cue much social media mockery and crowing from Reform’s online enemies that the rag-tag bunch of surging upstarts couldn’t run a bath, let alone a country.
But I can’t help thinking there’s actually something quite grown up about throwing your hands up in the cold light of day and admitting you overcooked it and got it wrong.
I wonder if it might be more wishful thinking from Reform’s panicking opponents that any of this will really change the price of fish.
It’s hardly like either rival party – especially the Tories – have a leg to stand on when having a pop at others for squabbling.
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on Wimbledon tennis finals to be shown on new TV channel after 88 years of BBC coverage
THE Wimbledon singles finals will be shown live on a BBC rival – giving the broadcaster a unique boast.
Earlier this year, Eurosport landed a five-year deal that also includes a daily 90-minute package of tennis highlights from SW19.
GettyCarlos Alcaraz, who won the French Open on Sunday, will be back at Wimbledon this year to defend the trophy, above, that he won in 2024[/caption]
GettyCzech star Barbora Krejcikova lifted the women’s SW19 trophy last year[/caption]
But Eurosport then went off air after being bought out by TNT Sports, who have inherited the TV rights and will show the Wimbledon finals for the first time.
The Beeb will remain Wimbledon’s main domestic broadcaster – continuing its 88 years of coverage.
The arrangements BBC and TNT have are both with the All England Lawn Tennis Cub (AELTC).
Ofcom Listed Events regulations allow for “secondary broadcasters” at major sporting tournaments.
That’s the status TNT Sports is taking with the AELTC at Wimbledon.
This year’s Wimbledon runs from Monday June 30 to Sunday July 13.
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on Bombshell report reveals Pentagon fueled UFO myths around Area 51 to hide classified weapons program
SOME wild UFO conspiracy theories were deliberately cooked up and stoked by the Pentagon itself, a bombshell report has revealed.
The U.S. Department of Defense spread claims that aliens were kept at Area 51 to cover up secret weapons programs, according to an investigation by The Wall Street Journal.
GettySome UFO conspiracy theories actually began inside the Department of Defense, the WSJ revealed[/caption]
GettyThe purpose of the rumours was apparently to divert attention from secret weapons testing[/caption]
GettyThese details were quietly left out of the Department of Defense’s 2024 transparency report[/caption]
In the 1980s, a U.S. Air Force colonel visited a bar near Area 51 in Nevada and handed the owner doctored photos of flying saucers near the military base.
The photos were pinned to the walls – and before long, local legend, had it the U.S. military was secretly testing recovered alien tech.
This came to light in a shocking review of the 2024 Defense Department report published by The Wall Street Journal (WSJ) on Friday.
The now-retired officer admitted to Pentagon investigators in 2023 that he was on an official mission to hide the site’s real purpose.
What was really happening at Area 51 was the secret testing and development of weapons programs.
And ever more under wraps was the development of the world’s first stealth warplane – the F-117 Nighthawk – seen as vital to keeping ahead of the Soviet Union during the Cold War.
With conspiracy theories about Area 51 already running wild, the military figured that feeding those rumours would help hide their secret projects hidden from the Soviet Union’s watchful eye, investigators found.
But the Pentagon dismissed claims of a government UFO cover-up in their report last year.
The WSJ argues that not only did the government mislead the public but it actively fuelled UFO myths.
The report writes: “The Pentagon itself sometimes deliberately fanned the flames, in what amounted to the U.S. government targeting its own citizens with disinformation.”
It includes findings made by Sean Kirkpatrick, the first director of the All-domain Anomaly Resolution Office (AARO), who was tasked by the government in 2022 to investigate UFO theories.
Kirkpatrick’s office discovered several conspiracies that traced back to the Pentagon itself.
In one shocking case, his team found out that the Air Force was initiating new recruits by giving them mock briefings about a fake unit called “Yankee Blue” – which supposedly investigated alien spacecraft.
Under strict orders to keep quiet, many people never discovered that this was a prank, Kirkpatrick’s team claimed.
The strange practice continued until 2023 when the Pentagon finally issued an order across the DoD to put an end to it.
Another finding by Kirkpatrick, reported by the WSJ, was that the government deliberately misled the public about secret military projects.
For instance, Robert Salas, a former Air Force captain, claims he saw a UFO hover over a nuclear missile site in Montana in 1967.
In reality, what he saw was a test of an early electromagnetic pulse (EMP) designed to see if American silos could survive atomic radiation and retaliate if the Soviet Union struck first.
When the test failed, Salas was told to never discuss what he saw.
Kirkpatrick’s team discovered the captain was never told the truth.
DoD spokesperson Sue Gough admitted to the WSJ that the government has not shared all of AARO’s findings but promised a clearer report later this year.
Gough said: “The department is committed to releasing a second volume of its Historical Record Report, to include AARO’s findings on reports of potential pranks and inauthentic materials.”
It comes as a photo claiming to show a 1,000ft-wide silver UFO soaring over the US was released last month by a notorious Pentagon whistleblower.
The picture was allegedly snapped by an airline pilot in 2021 while flying 21,000ft above the Four Corners Monument – spanning New Mexico, Arizona, Utah and Colorado.
Luis Elizondo revealed the photo during a UAP Disclosure Fund event.
But sceptics were quick to challenge the discovery – claiming the photo merely showed irrigation circles that are common in desert climates.
GettyIllustration of two UFOs flying in fog with light below.[/caption]
7 days agoNew York StateComments Off on I fell 9,000ft & LIVED after my paraglider wing collapsed during a flight… but I can’t wait to get back in the sky
A GRANDAD has told how his paraglider’s wing collapsed 9,000ft above the French Alps.
Retired counter-terrorism cop Steve Barnett, 57, flew into a storm cloud, saturating his glider.
SWNSSteve Barnett, 57, has told how his paraglider’s wing collapsed 9,000ft above the French Alps[/caption]
Stephen Barnett / SWNSSteve flew into a storm cloud, saturating his glider[/caption]
Stephen Barnett / SWNSSteve was sent falling 30ft through trees and broke his pelvis when he hit the ground at 40mph[/caption]
The wing caved under the weight of water as he tried an emergency landing — sending him falling 30ft through trees.
Steve broke his pelvis when he hit the ground at 40mph.
He called fellow paraglider Matt Roach, 47, for help.
The pal, in the air at the time, tracked him down and alerted a rescue helicopter.
Steve was airlifted from Passy, in south eastern France, to a hospital near the Italian border.
He was allowed to head home to Seaford, East Sussex, just two days later.
Steve recalled: “There was a big cloud and I started hearing a pitter patter on the wing.
“It came down heavier.
“Then all I could hear was this snapping, crackling and rippling.
“I bounced on the ground and rolled.
“It was like someone had kicked me really hard.”
Unfazed, he added: “I can’t wait to get back into the sky.”
Stephen Barnett / SWNSSteve called fellow paraglider Matt Roach for help[/caption]
Steve spent two days in hospital and now says ‘I can’t wait to get back into the sky’SWNS
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